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Peer support means building on a natural willingness of
people to help one another, taking place between those of
similar age, role and/or background, to enhance the common
purpose of the group. It should have a structure to develop
and use interpersonal skills within safe boundaries, enabling
those participating to gain valuable life skills. Peer support
is not about counselling or telling others what to do. It
is more listening and, if necessary, signposting to relevant
organisations.
In 2002, a group of Y11 boys and girls from Berkhamsted
Collegiate School attended a Peer Support Awareness Day
run by Dacorum Borough Council. They found the day very
useful and believed such a scheme would be beneficial in
the school, complementing the already strong pastoral system.
The Peer Support Group offers another route by which younger
pupils can express their concerns, i.e. to older pupils
whom they trust. The issues that can arise include homesickness,
bereavement, work issues, time management, bullying, home
problems and friendship issues.
We recruit and train the Y10 pupils in the early summer
ready to act as peer supporters in the following academic
year. Pupils apply to be part of the scheme and they each
undergo an interview with senior pastoral staff. They also
wear a lapel pin so other pupils can identify them.
The Peer Supporters are trained in-house and, in previous
years, this has been followed up by Childline. This year,
however, the training will be provided solely by our staff,
who have been trained by Childline for this purpose. The
Peer Supporters can talk at any time to identified staff
if they are unsure. They also meet regularly with senior
pastoral staff to discuss any issues that may have arisen
that are not confidential. In most cases, the Peer Supporter
is able to solve the issue without disclosure. Our School
Counsellor has been consulted throughout the process of
establishing the scheme and provided valuable support, attending
the training sessions with the pupils.
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